Night Out

My Complicated Life, My Confidence

All we wanted to do was go bowling…but somehow we ended up at bar. My best friend and I just wanted to do something different this past Saturday night. I tried calling a cute bowling alley in Georgetown to make a reservation but they were booked up for the rest of the night. So that was a bust. We thought we’d be able to just walk in to Lucky Strike in Chinatown, so we decided we’d try it out. We got there around 7:30 and the girl at the desk lets us know that the wait was going to be to at least 10:30. Bowling that night was no longer an option for us. We tried this really great bar close to Lucky Strike called Morris American Bar. We sat at the bar and our bartender was so sweet, personable and just a really great bartender. On their menu they literally list a drink that you can tell the bartender what you are in the mood for and they will make you a specialized drink based on your description. I added a picture of the drink the bartender made for me and it was made  with cucumber, gin and mint. SO delicious. My best friend loved her drink that the bartender made special for her as well. I also added the outfit I wore out that night and it’s details!Image-1 (12)9DA90866-2FA4-4B4B-A22B-53A09F26BCF2IMG_82210AE00211-2A68-435A-9110-7E676E3702B2





Cold Weather & Cold Symptoms

My Complicated Life

With the change in seasons, DC has been getting colder and colder by the day. Before I went to Howard, I swear the cold weather didn’t affect me as much as it does now. Rhode Island is usually about 10 degrees colder than DC’s temperature. When I started living in DC, needless to say I’ve been spoiled.

Well, with these new cold temperatures, I’ve also developed a cold. I woke up yesterday with a stuffy nose and sore throat. OF COURSE I have to get sick the one weekend I actually have plans. This Friday is my best friend’s 23rd birthday and it is Howard’s Homecoming weekend. I’ve been stocking up on all cold remedies and they have actually been working! I wanted to share with you all 5 of my top common cold remedies, since a lot of people I know are getting colds during the change of seasons! (I’m nothing close to a doctor, these remedies just work for me and could work for you too!)

  1. Raspberry Emergen-C (1000mg Vitamin C)
  2. Stash Tea Lemon Ginger Herbal Tea (P.S. I put extra lemon slices and honey with the tea bag in my mug before pouring the boiling water in!) -The ginger in the tea helps sooth a sore throat as well.
  3. Ricola Natural Herb Cough Drops Original Flavor (These are really helpful if you have a sore throat and I just like the way they taste.)
  4. Vicks Dayquil & Nightquil – Whenever I have a cold this is my go to medicine. Always helps with my cold symptoms and gets me through the day and gets me through a good night sleep.
  5. Zicam Cold Ultra RapidMelts – Helps shorten the duration of your cold! I hate being sick and this just help shorten the time! It also helps reduce my cold symptoms.

Gimme My Money

My Complicated Life

I’ve been attending Howard University for four years now and I am currently in my fifth year. As most of America knows, Howard’s financial aid office is a mess. I’ve been extremely lucky the past four years I’ve attended and I have not had to deal with any financial aid mishaps. Of course, by the luck of Howard, they couldn’t let me out with out any financial aid troubles.

This semester financial aid threw me for a loop. I was calling and calling because my Parent Plus Loan still had said offered, when it should have said accepted. One day I got fed up waiting and was scared all my classes would get dropped, and I decided to go in to the actual Financial Aid office. I guess, as of last year the Financial Aid Office number actually connects you to a call center instead of the actual Financial Aid Office that actually have power over your loans. The call center is a complete waste of your time and I learnt that just in time to graduate. Long story short I had to go into the Financial Aid Office to tell them to do their job about 3 times total before my issues were actually finished. Not only did I have to physically go in the office 3 times, but let me also remind you that each time I went there was a 2+ hours wait. I really don’t think I would even have gotten my loans this semester if I didn’t go in, which is so crazy to me. I really needed my refund check before October 1st because ya girls’ funds are running low and rent is about to be due.

I’m not sure if any of you know, but Howard had a huge financial aid scandal where employees were stealing money from students through the financial aid process. This was a huge upset for Howard University and it’s students didn’t take it lightly. There was a student protest for days in which students were demanding certain things from the University and actually took over the whole Administration building. People were even sleeping in there. I personally didn’t get involved because at that time I never had any serious financial issues and something like that isn’t really my scene. But power to the people, for sure.

Anyways, I got my refund check this weekend, so now ya girl is stress free…for now.

BOGO & Wings? Can’t be true.

My Complicated Life

I try to eat healthy during the week, which I do for the most part, but on the weekends… I cheat on my diet sometimes. Probably more than sometimes, but I’m not a judger, so neither are you.

So, this past Friday me and my best friend decided to try CRISP Kitchen and Bar. We had saw there Instagram page on a DC foodie Instagram account a while ago (can’t remember which one unfortunately), and we had saw that they had a daily happy hour from 5-9 PM. This was not a regular happy hour, but a BOGO happy hour! Yes buy one, get one free. I got took advantage of the BOGO deal and had two of their craft cocktails of the drink called cocktail formerly know as. I also ordered their Sriracha Honey Chicken Wings and they were as good as they sound. They’re a little on the bigger size than  my liking but the outer fried layer and the sauce make up for it. I’m a really picky wing eater and too be honest I haven’t had much luck finding good ass wings in DC. Like sometimes wings can gross me out, but it’s just when they’re like ginormous sized wings. I have way more specifications, but I’m not going to go into all that. But anyways, these wings are really good and I’m a tough wing critic.

I just love food.




Uber Prayers

My Complicated Life

I have not always been a religious person. I grew up in a Episcopalian church in my hometown. My parents always instilled the belief of God and going to heaven one day. I wouldn’t say I had a strict religious upbringing. I have been baptized and received my confirmation in the same church I grew up in. I was actually baptized with my father, which will always be special for the two of us.

When I was swimming really competitively in high school, swimming for my club team and my high school team, it kind of took over my life in more ways than one. I was swimming 7 days a week with two practices during the week, while still in high school. When my competitive swimming got more and more intense, the less and less I would attend church. We were always at swimming competitions over the weekend that would last Friday through Sunday. There was just no time and we just never took the time for it either.

I really haven’t been actively involved with God and my faith since I went to that church as a child. There was times during high school and the beginning of my college years that I also questioned my faith. I wasn’t sure where my faith was and I was not focused on the true meaning of actually having faith.

In my opinion, you don’t necessarily have to go to church every Sunday to have faith and believe in God. This past year has been such a turning point for me and I do thank God for it. I’ve grown up and realized so many things that I had been doing that wasn’t really me and the person I had become wasn’t the person God had put me on this Earth to be. I am so thankful I got my faith back. I feel more alive than ever. I am living my best life because I have faith and know that God will not throw anything my way I can’t handle.

On another note, I take a lot of Ubers. Uber is definitely the way I survive in DC. I have my own car at home, but during my time in DC I strictly rely on Uber. I’ve never really been a public transportation type of gal. Since I spend so much time in Ubers, I’ve realized I’ve been doing a lot of praying in them. They are the best, most quiet atmosphere that I’m able to strictly think only about God and pray for myself and the people I love. The point of this post I am sharing with you, is that if you have faith, it doesn’t matter where you do your worship. But take time to thank God for what you have and who you have in your life. Even during your Uber rides.